Ok, look.
Dating in high school is HARD.
Everyone is in TIGHT friend groups, and it feels like everyone is staring at you.
Don't worry anymore, because all of those problems will be solved. Below, I've outlined the exact steps to take to DATE SUCCESSFULLY IN HIGHSCHOOL!
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First, let's go over the 3 things you HAVE to get done.
These three things saved my highschool love.
Without these three things, I don't think love would even exist! (just kidding)
1. Remove All Distractions From Your Life:
Now, this may be a hard task, but how can you focus on love when you have a bunch of shenanigans everywhere else?
Quick Answer: You can't.
What do you prefer? A life where you are in love at all moments, or a life where your romantic moments get interrupted by a friend calling to go out to party.
Whether for love or not, distractions need to be removed. In order to become fully present and aware of what's happening, you have to be focused.
I want you to think about what things you know are distracting you and need to be removed. You know the answer as well as I do.
Don't listen to the voice in your head telling you that "Oh, it's not that bad." You know it's bad, and you're just coping.
Your ability to focus determines how far you will get in love. To persist to a task without doing something else.
THAT is what is needed in a world where attention is at its lowest.
(Side Note): If you want to learn more about being focused, I recommend you read the book "Deep Work" by Cal Newport.
2. Level Yourself Up To The MAX
This is something that is necessary to do.
The reason you've been struggling to get in a relationship is because...you don't deserve one!
See, the reason other people can get into relationships easily is because they have put in work to get into one.
That could be either improving their looks, smarts, wealth, or even mindset.
If you want to have more potential partners, level yourself up.
A path I recommend is starting with fitness.
Start by eating clean and going to the gym.
Read some books on self-improvement, wealth, sales, and marketing.
And start going out and speaking to other people. Leveling social skills will help significantly.
3. Stop Chasing For Love.
Contrary to what you want to hear, this is what you need to hear.
If you're looking for love, stop searching for it.
The more you search, the farther it'll get.
Imagine love as a stray cat. The more you try and chase after it, the more it'll run away.
The way to get the stray cat toward you is by placing bait, usually food.
Well, what is the food you ask?
Step 2.
Leveling yourself up will make opportunities for love with more people more accessible.
An obese person has a harder time finding a partner compared to a jacked person because they have leveled themselves up.
Love is a game, and you need skills to be good at it. When you level yourself up, your skills get better.
So you might be thinking to yourself, what now?
Give. Just give love to other people without asking for love in return.
And after that, give some more.
That is the skill of love, to give love, warmth, compassion, kindness, and everything in between without asking for anything.
Now that you know how to love, and the correct to do things to do, let's summarize everything.
Remove distractions from your life
Level yourself to the MAX
Stop searching for love
Give love without asking for love
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